What place do friends have in your life? We suppose that one of the most important, but friendships are not always what they seem. Sometimes because you really have friends who aren’t such, other times because they fail you and other times because they have a different concept of friendship than yours. That’s why we ask if your friends are really good friends.
The truth about your good friends
Lately you are reflecting a lot on your life and you have reached the field of friendship with some doubts. Because it’s not like before, because you don’t see each other so much anymore or because maturity is changing all of you. What relationship do you have with your friends?
Of course you adore your friends, but it’s normal for them to fail you sometimes because we all do. That is why it is also normal for you to wonder about the true nature of your friendships. Let’s find out if they really are good friends.
- Plans. You feel completely happy with your friends, that’s why you know that they are always the best plan and you don’t hesitate when choosing. You can’t imagine a weekend without your friends even if you have a partner and that means they are good friends.
- Support. You can count on your friends through thick and thin. If they run to your house to comfort you when you have a heartbreak, when you have broken up with your partner or when you are unemployed, take care of them because they are a treasure.
- Jealousy. There is no possessiveness or jealousy in your group of friends. It doesn’t bother them that you meet new friends or that one day you prefer to stay with your partner instead of going out with them.
- Gossip. You know your friends are good friends if they never talk to each other, if the gossip is focused on people outside the group, and it never occurs to them to go behind the back of one of the other friends.
- Intrusions. Your good friends support you in your decisions, but do not intervene in them. Both in the successes and in the errors, they are there to encourage you or to comfort you, but they do not interfere in your life or tell you that ‘I am telling you for your own good’.
- Effort. Friendship, like a couple, requires effort and must be taken care of on a daily basis. You send each other WhatsApp and call each other when you can’t see each other to check that everything is in order in your lives.
- Lies. A true friend never lies to you, not even a white lie. A real friend will never tell you that that striped dress looks great on you.
- Pressures. Real friends will never make you choose between them and your partner because they know you have enough heart for everyone. Even if they don’t like your boyfriend, they understand and accept your relationship.
- The best. A good friend will always want the best for you, she will always want you to be happy. Envy does not fit in a good friendship.